From the fullness of his grace we have all received
one blessing after another.
John 1:16
As we approach the Christmas season, I am again reminded of
how thankful I am for the good health of my husband, Don. He seldom complains
about anything, much less the six times he has had Cancer beginning the
Christmas season of 1996.
To start at the beginning, that fall Jennifer was a senior
in High School, and we had let a young man from Donnie’s class stay with us rent-free
as long as he did some chores around the house like mowing the lawn. When Don
came home the last Friday before Christmas week, he was upset to find that the
young man had done NOTHING asked of him that week, and he had regularly been
doing less and less for several weeks. First, Don told the young man how
disappointed he was, then told him to leave. Saturday morning Don got up early
and worked in the yard until late in the afternoon. At bedtime, he confided in
me that there was blood in his urine after all the exercise. We decided to call
our doctor first thing Monday.
We saw Dr. Weaver early Monday. He referred Don to Dr.
Perry, a urologist. Because it was the last few days before Christmas, Don
could not get in to see Dr. Perry until after Christmas. Believe me, that was
one very quiet, prayerful Christmas!
Dr. Perry scheduled Don for bladder surgery January 5, 1997.
We were blessed to learn that all the cancer was removed during that operation.
Don continued to have regular checks with Dr. Perry, and then Dr. Roberts, all
through these years since.
I got in contact with the young man and thanked him for his
negligence in the case of our yard because it saved Don’s life. He had found
another place to live, and has since married and has a successful life.
But my thankfulness doesn’t stop there!
In 2005 Don and I took a much-needed vacation in August. We
went to New Orleans the last full week before Hurricane Katrina struck
there. We had such a nice time
sightseeing and eating a lot of delicious food!
During the drive home Don showed me a large lump on his neck. I told him
it was on a lymph node, and we would need to see a doctor. Dr. Weaver saw Don
the following Monday, and set up an appointment with Dr. Arielle Lee, an
oncologist in Tyler.
Dr. Lee has been such an angel to Don and me! God has
blessed us with a tough, understanding doctor in Dr. Lee! You might have seen
her if you have needed to see an oncologist. She has taken care of several
people in our Sunday School class, alone! She always calls Don “quite a
character” and tells people how strong he is. One visit Dr. Lee told us we have
one very unique class!!
Long story short, Don had stage 4 Non-Hodgkins Follicular Lymphoma.
Dr. Lee said it was over all of his organs, his lymph nodes, and even up and
down his spine! He had several months of
chemotherapy at Dr. Lee’s clinic followed by one injection of a VERY EXPENSIVE
($50,000) radiation drug to finish off all the cancer. By the following spring
Don was once-again declared Cancer-free.
During a scheduled PET Scan to make certain Don’s Lymphoma
had not returned in 2008, a spot of Cancer showed up in Don’s Pancreas the
first time after my surgery. We took it as another blessing because Dr. Lee
told us we caught it very early. Only three weeks later Dr. Blake Harrison
operated on Don to remove the diseased part of his pancreas. By that short time, nearly all of Don’s
pancreas and his spleen had to be removed.
Two long weeks in the hospital later, Don came home to recover. He
didn’t even need chemotherapy or radiation!!
My story goes on………
In early fall 2010 Don went in for his scheduled PET Scan,
and Dr. Lee called to tell him his Lymphoma had returned. MORE MONTHS OF CHEMO!!! He only needed the
chemo that time.
As if that wasn’t enough, in August 2011 Don went for his
annual check-up on his bladder. He and I were joking as we waited for Dr.
Roberts to return to the room after Don dressed. Dr. Roberts told us as soon as
he came back in that he had found Cancer in his bladder again!! It felt like all the air in that room was
GONE!!!! I couldn’t even breathe for a
few moments!!! After saying a silent prayer, I looked at Don and let him know I
would stay with him at each chemo session again. I went to each one!
As you can see, Don is an exceptionally strong man. With
God’s help he has continued to travel and work each day, no matter if it was
just making phone calls, these past 15 years.
He has counseled more people who had Cancer than I can count. And he has
remained strong. The members of our Sunday School class call him our unofficial
poster child! He has helped my faith to
remain strong, and my prayer life to blossom through his love of God.
Oh! You say that is only FIVE times Don has had Cancer. Well, this spring Don and I were getting
ready to go to Tyler one Saturday, and I noticed something bleeding on his left
temple. When I asked him about it, he said it was a mole that kept bleeding
every once in a while. The next week I got him an appointment through Dr.
Weaver with Dr. Lambert in Tyler. You’re right. It was Cancer………again! He had it biopsied and removed shortly after
that at Dr. Lambert’s facility in Tyler.
Luckily, it was just a Basal-Cell Carcinoma. There are no more spots at this time. We jokingly call this last episode with Cancer
a “speed bump”!
When you feel like life just isn’t fair, and you are on the
bottom looking up, STOP!! Give God thanks for all the blessings you
have. You really do have MANY
BLESSINGS! He sent his Son to save us. We are blessed beyond belief! Enjoy all
that Christmas has to offer us. I do. I know that our Savior is taking care of
us with the Father. Christmas proves that.
Jackie Gruber